Idlib’s general attack is imminent! The United States and Russia launched a deep game around Syria’s "last battle"

       CCTV News:We continue to pay attention to the deep game between the United States and Russia around the "last war" in Syria. The focus of the game is Idlib province in the northwest of Syria and its surrounding areas, which is regarded as the last site of opposition armed forces and various extremist and terrorist organizations in Syria. At present, the government forces are making intensive pre-war preparations to recover this area, and the battle of Idlib, known as the "last battle" in Syria, may start at any time. And at this juncture, should I fight? How to fight? The United States, which supports the anti-government armed forces, and Russia, which supports the Syrian government, are sharply opposed, and for this reason, they have launched a confrontation and game in military diplomacy.

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       White House: If Syria uses chemical weapons, it will respond quickly.

       Let’s look at the new trend of the US. The White House No.4 issued a statement saying that the United States is closely monitoring the situation in Idlib province of Syria. If the Syrian government uses chemical weapons, the United States and its allies will respond "quickly and appropriately".

       This is not the first time that the United States has recently threatened to use force against the Syrian government. On August 21 this year, the United States, Britain and France issued a joint statement expressing "serious" concern about the possible military actions taken by Syrian government forces in Idlib province. The United States, Britain and France also warned that if the Syrian government uses any chemical weapons, they will make an "appropriate" response.

       Russia says terrorist organizations will create chemical weapons attacks.

       The threat of use of force by the United States and its allies against Syria is not just a verbal threat. In April this year, the three countries attacked Syrian government facilities on the grounds of the so-called "chemical weapons attack". Recently, the Russian Ministry of Defense suddenly broke the news that the "White Helmets" organization with western background is planning with terrorist organizations to prepare a chemical attack and frame it on the Syrian government.

       According to the information held by the Russian military, several terrorist organizations, such as the "Conquest Front", transported eight chlorine-containing containers to the northwest of Idlib province in an attempt to make and photograph the scene of the so-called "chemical weapons attack" by Syrian government forces, and intelligence shows that the chemical weapons attack premeditated by terrorists may be changed to Hama province.

       Earlier, Western countries repeatedly accused Syrian government forces of using chemical weapons, which were firmly denied by Syria and Russia. In April this year, the so-called "chemical weapons attack" occurred in the town of Duma, Syria, and the United States, Britain and France subsequently attacked Syrian government facilities. Later, the Russian media interviewed the parties who were attacked by so-called "chemical weapons" and identified the relevant attacks as forged.

       Trump issued a warning to stop Syria from attacking Idlib.

       US President Trump No.3 also issued a warning to Syria not to "recklessly" attack Idlib province, otherwise the consequences will be very serious. He also called on Russia and Iran not to participate in the battle of Idlib. In this regard, Russian Presidential Press Secretary peskov No.4 said that Trump’s statement was ill-considered.

       Peskov: "(Idlib) hides a large number of terrorists, which leads to instability. Efforts to end this situation through political and diplomatic channels have also been hindered. Importantly, this poses a threat to our military base. This point has been mentioned by the Russian President. Everyone knows that those drones that threaten our base took off from here (Idlib). "

       Chen Bing launched a military confrontation between Russia and the United States in the Mediterranean.

       In addition to bickering, countries such as the United States and Russia are also ready to intervene in the military.

       According to media reports, the United States has deployed large destroyers equipped with Tomahawk cruise missiles to the Mediterranean waters near Idlib. A Los Angeles-class attack nuclear submarine has also entered the Mediterranean waters. Los Angeles-class nuclear submarines can carry multiple cruise missiles. In the Gulf War in 1991, the first wave of attacks by multinational forces on Iraq was launched from surface ships and Los Angeles-class nuclear submarines. However, the Pentagon said that sending nuclear submarines into the Mediterranean was a routine voyage.

       Russia is not to be outdone. The Russian navy began military exercises in the waters near Syria in the eastern Mediterranean on the 1st. The Russian Defense Ministry said that more than 25 ships from the Russian Northern Fleet, the Baltic Fleet, the Black Sea Fleet and the Caspian Fleet participated in the exercise, and there were about 30 fighters. Although Russia claims that the exercise has nothing to do with the situation in Idlib, Syria, it is widely believed that this is the largest maritime military exercise held by Russia in the Mediterranean region since the end of the Cold War, mainly to show the will and ability to oppose western countries’ intervention in the Syrian war by force.

       In addition, the Russian media also reported that the Russian Ministry of Defense is increasing the deployment of naval forces in the Mediterranean Sea, including 10 ships of various types with missile strike capability. This is also the most powerful naval force deployed by Russia in the Mediterranean since it cracked down on extreme armed forces in Syria in 2015.  

       Russia-Turkey Summit or Focus on the Battle of Idlib

       Military confrontation is accompanied by diplomatic interaction. While the United States, Britain and France are threatening to use force against Syria, the presidents of Russia, Turkey and Iran will also meet in Iran on the 7th, that is, this Friday. It is expected that the situation in Syria, especially the war in Idlib province, will be the focus of this summit.

       Some analysts believe that at the upcoming summit, Russia, Turkey and Iraq need to coordinate and solve a series of problems, including the time of the war, the scope of the attack and the target of the attack, so as to prevent the armed forces supported by the three countries from accidentally firing, and to prevent the war from expanding out of control and harming the interests of the three countries.

       Iranian foreign minister’s visit to Syria reaffirms support for Syria’s counter-terrorism

       Let’s look at Iran’s attitude. Iran is an important ally of the Syrian government. It has always supported the Bashar regime in the Syrian civil war and provided military support to the Syrian government. Different from Turkey’s attitude, when Iranian Foreign Minister Zarif visited Syria on the 3rd, he called for "thorough elimination" of "terrorists" in Idlib province.

       Iranian Foreign Minister Zarif held talks with Syrian President Bashar al-Assad, Prime Minister khamis, Foreign Minister Moalem and several senior Syrian government officials on the same day. In their meeting with Bashar, Zarif and Bashar both accused "some western countries of exerting malicious pressure on Syria and Iran" and stressed that the two countries will not give up their "principles" and efforts to maintain regional peace and stability because of pressure. When meeting with Syrian Foreign Minister Moalem, Zarif reiterated that Iran will continue to support Syria’s actions against terrorist organizations.

       Talking about the war in Idlib, Syria, which may be about to start, Zarif said that the residual terrorist forces in Idlib area "will be completely eliminated" and this area should be returned to the Syrian people as soon as possible.

       Russian Foreign Minister: I am willing to meet with the US Secretary of State at the UN General Assembly.

       While the United States and Russia launched a deep game of military diplomacy around the "last war" in Syria, they did not refuse dialogue and communication. Russian Foreign Minister Lavrov said at the end of last month that he was willing to meet with US Secretary of State Pompeo during the UN General Assembly. The website of the Russian Ministry of Foreign Affairs issued a statement on the same day saying that both Lavrov and Pompeo will attend the 73rd UN General Assembly, which will open on September 18th. Lavrov expressed his willingness to meet with the US and discuss bilateral agenda and international affairs of common concern. He also said that both sides are ready for a fruitful and constructive meeting.

       The United Nations will convene many countries to discuss the situation in Syria.

       On the 4th, UN Special Envoy for Syria De Mistura said in Geneva that he would hold talks with Russia, Turkey and Iran from 10th to 11th. Subsequently, further talks were held with representatives of the United States, Britain, France, Germany and Saudi Arabia on the 14th. Subsequently, the UN Security Council will hold a meeting on the 20th to discuss the situation in Syria. It is hoped that this will be a breakthrough to promote the political process of the Syrian issue.

Haniuda Gou Wu: This is not a competitive competition. The audience is the most important.

>Zeng Hanjiang, Xi Neiyouxin (Yuu), Zhang Teng, Han Peiquan-this is Haniuda (Amu) I want to build an international men’s team in Creation Camp 2021.

>"If you are better than singing and dancing, you already have the world’s top men’s team. If I were the boss of a brokerage company, I would be a group with different styles, compete differently and take different paths. The most important thing for my group is to make everyone feel happy all the time. "

>Amu interprets its identity as an "Entertainer" by entertaining others and spreading happiness. Before going to China to participate in Creation Camp 2021, he worked as Genese Jr in Genese, the most influential Japanese firm. This experience shaped his understanding of idols to some extent.

>Amu in 2017

>No matter what dimension we observe, Amu is a special student in Creation Camp 2021.

>In appearance, when most people are still pursuing the aesthetic of "yellow skin turned white skin", Amu appears with a bronze wheat skin; In terms of performance style, Amu is more keen on retro Disco and the strong songs and dances of the four kings of Hong Kong than the so-called men’s group singing and dancing. In terms of personal character, Amu perfectly inherited the comedy side of "Jie Family", such as appearing on the ground at the initial stage, imitating Bruce Lee in Oshima Diary, and matching his expression pack with three Chinese characters-"Oil King".

>But even a "former hero" who is full of vitality, he has never experienced 24-hour uninterrupted shooting and will feel tired in the reality show. Up to now, when Amu mentioned the life in the camp, what he blurted out was the lyrics in the theme song: "The image is spinning ~"

>A Chinese student who is also a teacher of Li and also from Uranus Entertainment, Yuu was eliminated in the first round of the program, which made Amu feel lonely. In the few shots, Amu becomes more and more silent.

>He told meYuli studioDuring that time, He Yifan, a teammate of Ergong, helped him: "He always cared about me. When eating, he would say’ ‘Amu, come and have dinner together’, sometimes he would take a shower together, and when he got up, he would call me to go to my room for training, which helped me a lot."

>Group photo of Yuu, He Yifan and Amu, Haniuda.

>Due to too few shots, many viewers didn’t Get Amu’s handsomeness for the first time through The Legend of the Hungry Wolf until the last and the top 25 students had a Solo stage on the night of the finals.

>Regarding the editing logic of reality show, Amu actually figured it out in the camp, but still chose "Off camera". This even became the reason why he and Wu Yuheng became close-both of them would take the initiative to "avoid" the camera.

>"Wu Yuheng is always very self-effacing when there are many people. He doesn’t like to steal the camera and will always tell others,’ You go, you go’. I am also like this. " As a result, the pictures of heart-to-heart talks between two people are left out of the camera, so that viewers often wonder why Amu and Wu Yuheng seem to have such a good relationship on social platforms, as if they have missed any important plot.

>Wu Yuheng mentioned by Amu in Weibo.

>In fact, Amu didn’t expect to meet so many friends as family in the camp. Although it involves competition and elimination and needs to be chosen by the audience, he never regards everyone as a competitor. "And I have a different style from them."

>"People always think Japanese idols are cute when they mention them. In fact, I don’t quite agree with this view. This is like a stereotype of Japanese idols, which is a bit extreme. Japan is also an idol with different styles. "

>Now, the sui generis Amu has lived and worked in China for some time, and he thinks that he fits well with the entertainment market in China and will stay in China at least this year.

>Yuu and auspicious brother in Amu selfie lens

>I’m used to him full of energy in the camera, but in fact, Amu in private will give people a strong sense of contrast. His habits and hobbies are a little "old school", not quite like the daily life of a 23-year-old male artist.

>For example, he doesn’t like playing mobile phones very much, and thinks that electronic products will occupy the real life space and make himself electronic, "the brain will be bad." andYuli studioWhen they met, he was sitting at his desk, carefully reading the letters written by his fans in English.

>Amu prefers to spend time meditating than 5g surfing. He is used to applying for "time for a cup of coffee" from the brokerage team every day, striving for some time alone in busy announcements.

>Recently, he has developed a new hobby in China-drinking chrysanthemum tea and ordering it every time he goes to a restaurant. "My grandmother likes China tea very much. I especially like watching chrysanthemums bloom bit by bit through the glass. That moment is really wonderful!"

>Amu self-portrait

>Today, recalling everything in Haihua Island, Amu said word for word: "Sometimes, I want to do Creation Camp 2021 again".

Exclusive dialogue: Haniuda’s martial arts X entertainment theory

>Entertainment: Have you ever experienced such a 24-hour reality show when you were in Japan before?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:In Japan, there are staff members who follow you with cameras. There is no such thing as cameras everywhere and recording all day.

>When I first entered the camp, I saw the students and cameras, and I felt that everything here was very fresh, which was completely different from that in Japan before. But after two or three weeks, I didn’t feel it. Maybe it means that I have adapted and being photographed by the camera has become a part of my life. Even people don’t care much about the camera. During group training, some students will argue when discussing the performance.

>Entertainment: Did you ever think about recording programs like this before you came to China?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:Including 24-hour boot recording, staying up late training, being so tired, etc., I didn’t expect that there would be such a big performance stage.

>When I was preparing for the first stage of Meteor Shower with Yuu, Zhang Teng and Wu Yuheng, my mental stress was the greatest, because I didn’t know what other groups were like, and I didn’t know what I could contribute to this program. My tutor and staff were not familiar with it, so I was easily anxious and had no self-confidence.

>Amu, Yuu, Zhang Teng and Wu Yuheng’s first stage Meteor Shower.

>Entertainment: You seem to have a very good relationship with Wu Yuheng? You sent a personal photo of him on your Weibo.

>Haniuda Gou Wu:I feel that our meeting is like Destiny.

>In the group Meteor Shower, Yuu and I are from Japan, and Wu Yuheng and Zhang Teng are from different places in China. Four people separated by thousands of miles finally formed a group, training together and making progress together, which is probably fate.

>I talked a lot with Wu Yuheng where the camera didn’t shoot. His English is very good. I always feel that Wu Yuheng’s personality is a little bit like Japanese. He is always very humble when there are many people, and he doesn’t like to steal the camera. He will always tell others "Go and go". It’s the same with me.

>But after getting to know him very well, we will find that he just doesn’t like facing the camera and always feels shy when performing on the stage, which is different from us. Besides, our personalities are very similar.

>Amu and Wu Yuheng shoot each other.

>Entertainment: Do you care how many shots you have?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:It’s unfair not to have your own lens and story line in such a program, right? I think if I have the opportunity to perform and have more shots, I should also become a "famous student" in the program.

>Although I gradually understood this truth in the later stage of the program, I didn’t deliberately run to the camera to show anything, and Wu Yuheng and I wouldn’t have to run to the camera to chat. From the perspective of variety editing, the friendship between other students may be more in line with what the program wants. Although the story between Wu Yuheng and me has not been filmed and released, it does not mean that our relationship is not good.

>Entertainment: Now, do you think it’s just hard training, is it useful in this program?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:It’s not that hard work is useless, butIn this kind of idol selection program, it is the most important thing to have audience affinity.

>Everyone knows that Zando dances very well. If I compare my dancing skills with him, he will definitely be the first. But if my performance can attract many people’s attention and be liked, then I also have a chance to be the first. This is the logic followed by the idol industry.The most important thing about idols is that they can be liked by people and have their own light.

>Like Gan Wangxing, he has not received any singing and dancing training, and he is not a trainee himself, but his ranking and popularity are very high. When I saw that he ranked 12th for the first time, I was very happy, which showed that my above idea was correct.Creation Camp 2021 is not an Olympic-style sports competition. Gan Wangxing has something more attractive than skill, which is the original meaning of idols.

>Amu and Ganwangxing Weibo Lianmai

>Entertainment: What’s the mood of group night? Did you ever think that you would make a debut?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:Because I love the stage very much, I feel that as long as I can stay here and have a stage. I focused all my attention on the stage performance-the opening group dance, Definition and Legend of the Hungry Wolf, but I didn’t think about anything else.

>At that time, I cried when everyone sang "It’s windy". Those photos reminded me of the road I had traveled and my family and friends. I have always been a person who tries to hide my emotions, but at that moment I can really release myself without pretending to cheer up, because I really feel very sad.

>Amu on the night of the group night of Creation Camp 2021

>Entertainment theory: how to deal with the pressure when you feel great in the camp?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:Sometimes I go to chat with riki and Jing Ji Daxiang. Riki and I will talk about many things at home and dancing. riki likes talking about his mother very much, and we will also discuss how my performance is. I often chatted with Jing Ji Daxiang when I was in Sangong, and chatting with good friends was my "Happy time" in the camp.

>Entertainment: How much are you rivals and friends?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:I never thought they were rivals, we were just friends. There are different types of idol styles between us.

>To be honest, I don’t care much about ranking in this program, because it’s not up to me to decide. I can understand the ranking of Jing Ji Daxiang, because his face is really in line with the orientation of the Chinese idol market, and everyone will think everything he does is very cute; Riki and Zando are professional dancers. If we only consider the dance performance, they are top class.

>Hiroto

>Entertainment: What kind of idol do you want to be?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:I position myself as an ——Entertainer, an all-round artist who can entertain others and make everyone feel happy.

>Entertainment: Is this why you joined Genese Office?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:In fact, my dream since I was a child is to be a well-known Hollywood actor like Johnny Depp, and I always have been. I want to create that kind of Man and cool character on the screen.

>Entertainment: What does it mean for your "Hollywood actor dream" to participate in Creative Camp 2021?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:I feel that after attending Creation Camp 2021, I am closer to this dream. Before that, I was Nobody, but now I have my own fans and more people know me.

>Creation Camp 2021, appearance of Amu and Yun

>Entertainment: Do you feel that the development of so-called "J-POP" has stagnated in recent years?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:J-POP market is different from China and South Korea, and it is controlled by monopoly enterprises. When monopolists don’t make changes and continue to operate in the same way for many years, the whole Japanese entertainment industry will not change, and there will not be so many idols with fresh faces and different styles.

>Entertainment: In your opinion, what’s the difference between being an idol in China and Japanese?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:In fact, they are all the same, but Japanese idols "have no money".

>For example, being photographed by fans in public places, there are actually some in Japan, but they are secretly photographed and won’t let you know like here; There are also some things that idols should not do, which are also prohibited in Japan.

>I think everything should have a balance. Being an idol can’t just enjoy fame and popularity. Everything is good and bad. This is the law of the world. Since I want to get some good things, I must give up some freedom. I want to say that I am ready.

>Amu on the stage of Creation Camp 2021

>Entertainment: How long do you plan to work in China at present?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:Maybe at least this year will be in China. If my father misses me, I may go back, because I haven’t been home yet because of the epidemic.

>Entertainment theory: if you stay in the entertainment room in the future, have you made any Chinese learning plans?

>Haniuda Gou Wu:Yuu and I both signed up for offline Chinese schools in Shanghai, and we are now working hard to learn Chinese.

>The new words learned recently are all from the dialogue in the textbook, such as: Shut up, date, take your time, wash the dishes … Wu Yuheng washes the dishes.

>Amu eats crabs

Father’s Day: Say "I Love You" to Dad (Photos)


A father’s big hand is a child’s most powerful support. Reporter Qiao Junwei photo


  Lao Dou, I love you in my heart!


  Today is Father’s Day, but in the parent-child relationship in Chinese, few children express their love and gratitude to their father in person. According to the survey of Dayang. com, 91.5% people have never said "I love you" to their father’s face!


  However, in the Father’s Day warm blessing launched by this newspaper yesterday, more than 70 children boldly expressed their feelings through newspapers, telling their fathers: "Dad, I love you!"


  Yesterday, several fathers and children of different ages were interviewed by reporters, telling the feelings of father and son (daughter) in their hearts: the intimacy between father and son (daughter) when children were young; Adolescence challenges and rebelles against father’s authority; Gradually understand and accept the father after adulthood; After middle age, I empathized with my father … Every story is sincere and touching.


  Our reporters Huang Rongfang and Shi Shanwei


  Dad, I want to tell you


  Silent love always has some regrets.


  Nini is a 6-year-old first-year student


  "I often say,’ Dad, I love you’"


  My father is very strong. Therefore, he hugged me when I was a child, because my mother was weak! Grandma said that when I was a child, my father always took me to sleep at night because my mother worked the night shift. I always wake up in the middle of the night to eat milk, go to the balcony to see the scenery and go downstairs to play. My father makes milk powder for me every night and plays with me in the middle of the night. Grandma said that at that time, my father shook me while sleeping with his eyes closed! Because he is so sleepy!


  Dad loves telling jokes and has many ideas, so I like playing games with him very much. When I am unhappy, he will say, "I will count to three, and you will definitely laugh!" " However, before counting, he always deliberately said, "Keep your mouth shut! Keep your face tight! I’m going to count! Get ready … "As a result, I can’t help laughing before he starts counting.


  Now, my father is more and more strict with me. He doesn’t like me crying. Sometimes I dawdle and don’t do my homework, and he will yell at me. Dad always said that my mother spoiled me too much, saying that loving mothers often failed.


  Unlike mom, dad always says, "Baby, I love you so much!" " He doesn’t say such disgusting things very much. He sometimes calls me by my first name instead of my nickname. However, I still feel that he loves me very much Therefore, I will often say to him: "Dad, I love you!" "


  Iowa is a 16-year-old junior high school student.


  "My father and I basically have no intersection."


  My father is in the clothing business in Hengjiao, Baiyun District. He does his business and I go to my school. They are irrelevant. I was introverted since I was a child, and I didn’t like to talk. My grades in primary school were average. Dad’s discipline for me is in the primary school stage, and I have a few words of praise for my good grades; If you don’t do well in the exam, beat you with a stick.


  When I was in the fifth and sixth grade of primary school, my father began to be indifferent to my grades. Every time he finished the exam, he would only ask, "Did you do well in the exam?" Every time I answer "average", he doesn’t bother to ask. Since junior high school, I have been at the bottom of my class in every exam.


  Because of my poor grades, my father never held out much hope for me. Now that the senior high school entrance examination is over, I did badly in the exam again. Anyway, there is no hope of attending high school. Dad has planned for me to go to a technical school and major in business English. He said he could do clothing business with him in the future after he graduated from English. Since he has made a decision for me, I don’t have any complaints, so I just chose a technical school in Liwan District and started school in two months. Unfortunately, you can’t live on campus then, but you have to live with your parents.


  In fact, I know that my father, like my mother, is very kind to me. He remembers my birthday every year and cooks a delicious table every time. When I was in the fifth grade, my father bought me a computer for 8000 yuan. But I don’t think he cares about me, and I seldom talk to him if I’m okay. There is basically no intersection between us.


  Mr. Zhang is a 45-year-old civil servant


  "Never let the other person know his inner love."


  It was only after I became a father that I gradually understood my father, who I had never understood before, and I became more tolerant of my father. But my father is depressed now, and he is clamoring to go to a nursing home, which makes me very sad.


  When I was young, I always thought that my father was nothing, and even looked down on him, thinking that he had worked all his life and had never made it. It was not until I was middle-aged and had the burden of life that I slowly accepted my ordinary father. I began to ask for his advice on things I had never discussed with him before.


  A few years ago, my mother died of illness, and my 75-year-old father was like a different person, always losing his temper with his family. When he is alone at home, he drinks to relieve boredom, and he doesn’t drink much. When he drinks a little, he gets drunk, and when he is drunk, he swears everywhere.


  Last month, my father went to Guangzhou Friendship Apartment for the Aged to see a friend. He saw many old people playing mahjong together, talking and laughing. When he got home, he told me that he would move in. I didn’t agree at first, but when I persuaded him, he got angry and had a "cold war" with our family. Finally, I had to give in and send him to an apartment for the elderly.


  On the way to send my father to the nursing home, I remembered that when I was still at school, my father sent me to live on campus, and my heart was very unpleasant. I know that my father has always loved us, and we certainly love him. However, we never seem to let each other know this.


  No matter how busy you are, there must be room for family ties.


  In the interview, the reporter found that the childhood of children is the golden period of close communication with their fathers. Children at this stage, both men and women, worship and are close to their fathers; The period when the relationship with the father "deteriorates" is the child’s adolescence. At this stage, the children who enter the rebellious period turn from worship to disappointment, and because the father’s discipline of the children is relatively strict than that of the childhood, many children will even have resentment, especially the adolescent son is more likely to "turn against" his father; What is intriguing is that when children are adults, especially when they are parents themselves, their relationship with their fathers will mostly "warm up", and they will gradually understand the hardships and hardships of being parents. When they are in middle age, when they also encounter their children’s adolescence and career setbacks, they will understand their fathers’ feelings in those years and will tolerate and even protect their elderly fathers.


  Li Ben, an associate researcher at the Provincial Academy of Social Sciences, said that in fact, there is also a "magnetic field" between father and child. "No matter how busy you are, you must leave room for your family." Li said that a warm home can increase a person’s happiness.


  Son, I want to tell you


  I hope you always stare at your mobile phone on the phone.


  Zuo Haoming is 34 years old and the daughter of a company employee is 5 years old.


  Education is too utilitarian and forgets the communication of the heart.


  Man is really a strange animal. When your daughter is still in your wife’s belly, what you expect every day is that she can be born healthily and safely. Once your daughter is born smoothly, your biggest concern is that she is smarter than others. As soon as my daughter was full moon, I held her all over the community to play: watch the sunrise and sunset, count the stars to distinguish the moon, divide it into east, west, north and south, climb Baiyun Mountain in heavy rain, swim in the open-air swimming pool against the north wind, and even borrow a fallen leaf and a hydrogen balloon to make up stories for my daughter …


  As my daughter grew up, I found that the magic of "education" diminished, and my daughter even refused to play with me. Because she doesn’t think it’s fun to be with me. I gradually realized that what my daughter wants most is for me to play and be crazy with her. I pay too much attention to "education" but forget the importance of communication. What is the difference between this and my parents? Looks like I’m not immune either.


  Wen Tianpeng (pseudonym as required) 46-year-old civil servant’s son is 16 years old.


  Beat him and scold him, but my heart ached.


  In fact, in the process of raising my son, I worked as hard as his mother. When my son was a child, I was omnipotent in his mind, and he adored me.


  My position in my son’s heart has been shaken since he was in the second day of junior high school. He laughed at me for being old-fashioned and complained that I was useless, saying that his classmate’s father had been promoted to director, and I was still a small chief clerk. He surfed the Internet, played truant and fought. I asked him why, but I wouldn’t understand what he said. Maybe too many things go wrong, and my temper is getting worse and worse. Isn’t it true that menopausal fathers are often incompatible with their adolescent sons? We are now. I often scold him, and sometimes I can’t help hitting him. He is also stubborn. He was scolded and went his own way. Looking at his wronged and hateful eyes, my heart ached.


  Xie Zhiping 75-year-old retiree’s eldest son is 45 years old.


  I just want to hear my son’s voice.


  In the past, I was the secretary of the Party Committee in the factory, and I was an "authority" whether in the factory or at home. At that time, because of my busy work, I had little communication with my three sons, so I asked my wife to tell them everything.


  Things changed from the year I retired. At that time, the two sons had formed a family, and the younger son got married and moved away in the third year of my retirement. I feel empty. A few years later, my wife passed away. Now only on holidays will my children and grandchildren come to see me. I used to be tough, but now I am extremely dependent on my son. If the faucet is broken, I will call my son to fix it. Even if I want to change my hairstyle, I will ask one by one. Actually, I just want to see them and hear their voices. I often stare at my mobile phone in a daze. Sometimes, when my son calls, I am happier than the holidays.

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